Okay, well please understand that there is a huge oppurtunity there.  Thousands of users from all forums have referencing system issues and if someone tackled that it would probably be pretty successful since there is not one off the shelf plugin solution for referencing.  Seems like most large companies that use max, like Blur, have written their own referencing systems as part of their internal toolset and they apparently work great.  So it is possible, just not available.

Thanks for responding.  Cheers.